Category: changing self sabataging behavior

Why Chronic Conflict Avoidance Doesn’t Work

  We have all heard of people who avoid any type of conflict when dealing with others. The standard reason that is usually given is that they do not want the other person to be angry with them or they think it would lead to an argument that would be very upsetting to them. Often, such avoidance leads to some initial relief. On the back end, however, it results in just the opposite. An issue that is avoided only gets added to previous unresolved issues, making the problem bigger. WithRead More