Author: Shocki, PhD, LMFT, LCSW

Dr Shocki has over thirty years experience in the behavior health field. He has founded and directs the Life Source Center, Inc., located in Plantsville Connecticut. Services include behavior health counseling dealing with relationship issues, persons struggling with various anxiety and depressive maladies and those individuals struggling to develop improved stategies to cope with the world around them. Dr. Shocki has also written a book entitled "Take Charge of Your Life or Someone Else Will" The book is available electronically free upon request at lifesourcecenter @aol.com.

Disagreeing without being Disagreeable

Disagreeing without being Disagreeable Unless your partner is a clone of you, there inevitably will be disagreements. The reasons vary from different personality styles, different upbringing, different genetic makeup, different values, to mention a few. These disagreements usually end up in a right/wrong situation other than just two people who are different with two different realities. A power struggle ensues with each thinking the other is wrong. Neither can sit down and negotiate a resolution to their differences. They resist by repeating the same complaint over and over or holdingRead More