Author: Shocki, PhD, LMFT, LCSW
Dr Shocki has over thirty years experience in the behavior health field. He has founded and directs the Life Source Center, Inc., located in Plantsville Connecticut. Services include behavior health counseling dealing with relationship issues, persons struggling with various anxiety and depressive maladies and those individuals struggling to develop improved stategies to cope with the world around them. Dr. Shocki has also written a book entitled "Take Charge of Your Life or Someone Else Will" The book is available electronically free upon request at lifesourcecenter @aol.com.
“You are not a failure until you start blaming others for your mistakes” – John Wooden
In my practice, as well in my everyday life experiences, it is not unusual for people to blame others for the unhappiness they are experiencing in their life. The others can be their parent(s) or children, boss or coworker, spouse or significant other. The list goes on and on. How often has it been said that if only the other person would think or behave as is expected, problems would not manifest themselves. When things go wrong, for many it is perceived as the other person’s fault. Far too oftenRead More