Couples invariably come into my office complaining that their communication has broken down and they are looking for ways to enhance their communication skills.                                               Well, as the old saying goes, “Be sure you really want what you wish for because you may get it.”  Couples find out quickly that communication is more than talking.  It also involves listening. Therein lies the rub. When attempting to communicate, there is a propensity to focus more on what you want to say rather than than truly hear and uderstand the other person’s position. What startsRead More